SHUT-UP

taijahwinding wrote:

You need to shut up because you can not tell people what to do o.k get it got it GOOD now don't tell her to say YES or No

This thread is about advice. You do tell people what to do when you give them advice. The question then is whether or not they follow the advice, that requires their own judgment.

I personally think Loderi gives get advice, and would appreciate it if you wouldn't be rude to her. Thank you. .

okay..right,
theres this lad and i've known him for ages, but we never really talk,
but when we do talk, we have such good conversations, whether its at school or over msn,
he's like really popular and hes really kind and sweet and i feel like a litle kid now when we talk because i get butterflies
the past few weeks i've been feeling more than a friendship with him, as you've most likely guessed,
but i really REALLY like him,
and i don't know what to do,
i don't know if i should wait and see what happens,
or ask him myself,
but i need adive  !!
what would you do ??!!


Agalia-Tianna

oogie wrote:

Agalia-Tianna wrote:

okay..right,
theres this lad and i've known him for ages, but we never really talk,
but when we do talk, we have such good conversations, whether its at school or over msn,
he's like really popular and hes really kind and sweet and i feel like a litle kid now when we talk because i get butterflies
the past few weeks i've been feeling more than a friendship with him, as you've most likely guessed,
but i really REALLY like him,
and i don't know what to do,
i don't know if i should wait and see what happens,
or ask him myself,
but i need adive  !!
what would you do ??!!


Agalia-Tianna

I know that this isn't an answer but I feel a little more information would help
like: have you been having more conversations then usual lately
does he talk to you rather then other people
does he touch his lips when you talk? or fuss over his shirt. . . as well as wondering eyes?

he always touches his lips when hes talking to me, but i wouldn't say he talks to me more than anyone else..

I have some questions I like a boy but he is the friend of my best friend what should I do? (Zazanie try to stick each other or what?)

oogie wrote:

Babey-Paigee wrote:

oogie wrote:

I know that this isn't an answer but I feel a little more information would help
like: have you been having more conversations then usual lately
does he talk to you rather then other people
does he touch his lips when you talk? or fuss over his shirt. . . as well as wondering eyes?

he always touches his lips when hes talking to me, but i wouldn't say he talks to me more than anyone else..

please remember that this is my opinion
he might like you, but might not be sure of it yet
I'd take it slowly
build your relationship up at the moment
does this help?

i didn't reply...i'm not babey paige  x
but he always asks me if i'm okay cause we sit next to other in math and he helps me which is like really cute and stuff,
but when we're on the bus he rarely talks to me,
but when he does talk he ALWAYS looks at me in the eyes and touches his lips..if that helpss  x

oogie wrote:

Agalia-Tianna wrote:

oogie wrote:

please remember that this is my opinion
he might like you, but might not be sure of it yet
I'd take it slowly
build your relationship up at the moment
does this help?

i didn't reply...i'm not babey paige  x
but he always asks me if i'm okay cause we sit next to other in math and he helps me which is like really cute and stuff,
but when we're on the bus he rarely talks to me,
but when he does talk he ALWAYS looks at me in the eyes and touches his lips..if that helpss  x

sorry sweet heart  I should have checked
I think he likes you
(touching lips is an indicator, not a sure sign)
but why doesn't he speak to you on the bus? do you not stand near him? or does he have more established friends?

i don't know tbh, i think its because hes the only lad from our year on the bus and he rarely talks to any of us x

Junny70 wrote:

how do you get a boyfriend

Are you really 26?

okay, well this is very confusing but ill try to explain:
so first of all, ive liked this one boy for a while, and apparentally he liked me back too, but didn't want to ask me out because he knew i'd probably say no because i personally am not ready to date yet (we had been friends for a while). he told me he was cool with it, and said he still wanted to be friends.
But then, i have a friend (who is a girl) who is bi. well one day, after school she kissed me, and told me that she 'loved' me. well, the boy that i like saw us. he went all crazy and then ran away, which alone was a shocker (hes just not that kind of person).  After that scene, things got all akward (or even more akward) and i told my friend that i didn't want to do anything, and i don't feel that way about her.
i didn't see the two of them for about a month (i had to go away for my health) and now things are really akward between us... im still tryin to figure out exactly what happened, let alone what i should do.  i still want to be friends with the two of them, but...

PandaFromChina wrote:

okay, well this is very confusing but ill try to explain:
so first of all, ive liked this one boy for a while, and apparentally he liked me back too, but didn't want to ask me out because he knew i'd probably say no because i personally am not ready to date yet (we had been friends for a while). he told me he was cool with it, and said he still wanted to be friends.
But then, i have a friend (who is a girl) who is bi. well one day, after school she kissed me, and told me that she 'loved' me. well, the boy that i like saw us. he went all crazy and then ran away, which alone was a shocker (hes just not that kind of person).  After that scene, things got all akward (or even more akward) and i told my friend that i didn't want to do anything, and i don't feel that way about her.
i didn't see the two of them for about a month (i had to go away for my health) and now things are really akward between us... im still tryin to figure out exactly what happened, let alone what i should do.  i still want to be friends with the two of them, but...

Well just explain to the guy you like and the one that likes you what actually happened, i'm sure he will understand when you explain she kissed you and that it was unexpected...  and you need to tell your friend its what exactly they are, a friend and you need to make sure that is very clear otherwise you could end up in an even more uncomfortable situation than that one...  That way you can be friends with the both of them, you just need to clear the air a little, thats all =] Does this help at all? x

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Nej123 wrote:

I know its long, but any help would be greatly appreciated!!
This is the first boy trouble i've had in ages! Just need some REALISTIC advice, not just some words to keep me happy.

All right, so me and my boyfriend have been together now for 1 year and 3 months. We are literally the envy of all our mates who are in relationships because they say we are the 'perfect couple'. Our relationship is solid and there isn't actually anything wrong with it, but I'M the problem. I've got a MASSIVE wad of negativity hanging over my head at the moment (always happens at this time of the year) and for the past three nights in a row i've been ringing up my boyfriend in tears abot our relationship saying i didnt think he loves me as much and stuff like that. The thing is, i KNOW he does love me as much. And i KNOW he goes through phases where one moment he's stuck to me, always wants to be around me and will do anything i say, then the next moment he likes to have some time to himself and does things more for himself which is rightly fair.
I just KEEP being so negative about our relationship thinking that his 'me time' phase is him not loving me as much. It gets me so down at night that i have to keep ringing him up to make sure and it's driving him nuts. He's always saying he wants to be with me forever but my constant whining is constantly bringing him down. I'm trying so hard not to get down but i just cant seem to be able to stay feeling secure. I'm scared that if i keep doing this it will tear us apart and he means the world to me.

Anyone got some advice for me?

I'm not too sure what to say other than tell him what you've posted here.

I dont have problems with my bf (too early for that ) but my friend just broke up with her bf. No, wait - he broke up ith her after 4 years together. She's really depressed, he was her first bf and she never was with anybody else. Sad