Bimbos Who Are Not In [C L E E K] or [G R O U P]!

i would join one if i knew how to join one lol

I thought I'd just wait for an invite. It's been 71 days and I haven't been invited so oh well. I really don't have a problem with it either way.

WhisperWood wrote:

clique, to me, has this exclusive meaning intertwined into the definition.

That's where people misunderstand.. I don't know about the other cliques, I haven't studied them closely, but the Bimbo Mafia is NOT an exclusive group. Everyone can join if they just want to. Just barge in and join the conversation, put a sentence in your signature and you're in. It's that easy :S

kimdatumanong wrote:

LiLFaShioNiStA wrote:

im not in one, made one but i guess it didnt work out much

are you sure you're not in a group? why do you have our siggy?


i don't think there is anything wrong with that... being in a group doesnt mean that we are dependent on others, or we belong... it depends upon the group...

like P.L.S., who are very warm people.. we just enjoy chatting around on things we all have in common with.. which is LIKING PINK... shallow? but that's us... we squirm... don't mean we're weak... or demanding...

we just act like ourselves

ya just joined! and i made a group! Bimbo Queens! i made a forum bout it. Hope thats ok! Am i still part of the PLS?!

I'll put it this way... Just because some of us (including me) were often seen in a group's threat, doesn't make us a member of the group, we happen to like that particular group of people and it's pleasant to talk to them... ^_^

I'm okay for groups or 'cleeks' since it has it's own advantages too, it actually makes the forum interesting... It is your free will to join or not, no one is pressuring you...

Reisuru wrote:

There has been a lot of these threads recently. I think it would be a good idea to stick to one thread in the future.

First of all, I just have to clear something out. Do you guys who are not in a clique, feel like you are being pushed into joining one? Is that the reason why you make all these threads? I think it's okay you're not in a clique, and I don't doubt that you are, indeed, your own person with your own opinions. But what happens when you keep stating this, is that I start feeling discriminated in  a way. You're basically saying that people who belong to a group in here, are not independent people with their own minds, they are just followers. I think this is so wrong. I have stated many times before that I joined my clique to get to know people, and I feel like I have.  But it doesn't mean I don't have a mind of my own, I am just as much of an independent soul as you guys.

I'm sorry, but sometimes I just don't get how you think. Would someone explain to me WHY it is so wrong to be a member of a clique?

True, not trying to offend anyone but when someone else had started threats like these, it's not nessecary to start something like this too...

I truly believe that there's reason in every action... When someone starts a threat,it's because there's something in his/her mind...

If some of you here keep thinking those who were in groups/cleeks are not having minds of their own, not true... It's simply a way of making people who sees each other everyday come together...

Like I mentioned before, NO ONE is pressuring you to join, I could see well that not being in a group doesn't stop these cleeks from talking with you... Being on your own but feeling pressured like that will likely to cause drama again, and your goal to be a so-called peacemaker will fall...Reisuru had probably said it all already...

Last edited by florallover (08-04-2008 07:26)

maisydaisy wrote:

florallover wrote:

Reisuru wrote:

There has been a lot of these threads recently. I think it would be a good idea to stick to one thread in the future.

First of all, I just have to clear something out. Do you guys who are not in a clique, feel like you are being pushed into joining one? Is that the reason why you make all these threads? I think it's okay you're not in a clique, and I don't doubt that you are, indeed, your own person with your own opinions. But what happens when you keep stating this, is that I start feeling discriminated in  a way. You're basically saying that people who belong to a group in here, are not independent people with their own minds, they are just followers. I think this is so wrong. I have stated many times before that I joined my clique to get to know people, and I feel like I have.  But it doesn't mean I don't have a mind of my own, I am just as much of an independent soul as you guys.

I'm sorry, but sometimes I just don't get how you think. Would someone explain to me WHY it is so wrong to be a member of a clique?

True, not trying to offend anyone but when someone else had started threats like these, it's not nessecary to start something like this too...

I truly believe that there's reason in every action... When someone starts a threat,it's because there's something in his/her mind...

If some of you here keep thinking those who were in groups/cleeks are not having minds of their own, not true... It's simply a way of making people who sees each other everyday come together...

Like I mentioned before, NO ONE is pressuring you to join, I could see well that not being in a group doesn't stop these cleeks from talking with you... Reisuru had probably said it all already...

As a non member of any group I have never felt pressured to join one.

Those in groups do have their own minds, I agree, but I feel like it is a sort of following. I sometimes feel pushed out of the forums as they are so over run by certain groups.

I'll admit many of the groups are good and the people in them are lovely, like I said before, but there is a select couple of groups who I'll admit I hate. Purely because of the attitudes

Sure dear... We tend to have certain people that we dislike whether in real life or on the Internet... But it doesn't help in the end to start threats like these in the first place, might as well just get along with anyone you think lovely, can't hate everyone in a particular group just because some of them have attitude...

Reisuru wrote:

There has been a lot of these threads recently. I think it would be a good idea to stick to one thread in the future.

First of all, I just have to clear something out. Do you guys who are not in a clique, feel like you are being pushed into joining one? Is that the reason why you make all these threads? I think it's okay you're not in a clique, and I don't doubt that you are, indeed, your own person with your own opinions. But what happens when you keep stating this, is that I start feeling discriminated in  a way. You're basically saying that people who belong to a group in here, are not independent people with their own minds, they are just followers. I think this is so wrong. I have stated many times before that I joined my clique to get to know people, and I feel like I have.  But it doesn't mean I don't have a mind of my own, I am just as much of an independent soul as you guys.

I'm sorry, but sometimes I just don't get how you think. Would someone explain to me WHY it is so wrong to be a member of a clique?

Hello

Well i didn't mean to offend anyone when i made this thread. Also I was NOT stating that you didn't have a mind of your own.

Hope that cleared it up!



xoxo Candy

MissVierto wrote:

I think the idea of cliques here ruins most of the fun, 'cause this way people get divided... it's like the religious schools and so on... It's not right. Just another reason for people to give credit to certain others. It's getting like a big mafia...and like in the high schools. I just don't know what's with you people.

Grow Up.

I hate being into clubs/cliques blah-blah - the whole idea. I love metal,goth music and I have dance-music liking friends..even people that hate my favourite sports team(I Am A maniac) are my friends... It just shouldn't matter... It's getting those people distanced from the real world.... And it always starts 'wars' , arguments and others. I don't like the idea.

Never have been and never will be in a clique.

It'd be better if it had topics for music/movies and so on in the forum. There we might meet people with the same interests too... It's just never made issues.
Well, young things - have fun afterall this is the game all about. I hope no one gets ffended or something (because my opinion said like this isn't saying anything bad for people in cliques, just for the cliques itself).

I'm getting tired of seeing people one by one keep saying why they dislike groups/cleeks... All of you said it yourself that this is just a game site, so why should it matter/bother anyone when others are getting into groups, that's THEIR way of fun...

It ruins the 'fun' because some of you here just too serious and can't let go... Even to the point of comparing this petty thing to real life...To really GROW UP is to complain less...

Take note that I'm not in a group/cleek myself, but it's a waste of time trying to get everyone to do the same, make peace... No don't worry, I'm not offended, just think that no one should have said what is 'right' or 'wrong' in here... We have children dying from AIDS, poverty, animal extinction, those are the things I prefer discussing about...

xCandyAllOverx wrote:

florallover wrote:

MissVierto wrote:

I think the idea of cliques here ruins most of the fun, 'cause this way people get divided... it's like the religious schools and so on... It's not right. Just another reason for people to give credit to certain others. It's getting like a big mafia...and like in the high schools. I just don't know what's with you people.

Grow Up.

I hate being into clubs/cliques blah-blah - the whole idea. I love metal,goth music and I have dance-music liking friends..even people that hate my favourite sports team(I Am A maniac) are my friends... It just shouldn't matter... It's getting those people distanced from the real world.... And it always starts 'wars' , arguments and others. I don't like the idea.

Never have been and never will be in a clique.

It'd be better if it had topics for music/movies and so on in the forum. There we might meet people with the same interests too... It's just never made issues.
Well, young things - have fun afterall this is the game all about. I hope no one gets ffended or something (because my opinion said like this isn't saying anything bad for people in cliques, just for the cliques itself).

I'm getting tired of seeing people one by one keep saying why they dislike groups/cleeks... All of you said it yourself that this is just a game site, so why should it matter/bother anyone when others are getting into groups, that's THEIR way of fun...

It ruins the 'fun' because some of you here just too serious and can't let go... Even to the point of comparing this petty thing to real life...To really GROW UP is to complain less...

Take note that I'm not in a group/cleek myself, but it's a waste of time trying to get everyone to do the same, make peace... No don't worry, I'm not offended, just think that no one should have said what is 'right' or 'wrong' in here... We have children dying from AIDS, poverty, animal extinction, those are the things I prefer discussing about...

Just coz we dont lyk being in a group for our own reasons..doesn't mean that we are trying to change other peoples mind aswell!
I for one have never said that...The thread's topic is :  Bimbos Who Are Not In [C L E E K] or [G R O U P]!
So i wasn't saying that we were gona change any1 elses opinion aswell.

xoxo Candy

No, not we, just SOME of them here... Candy dear, I'm not refering to you... I'm sure you could see who I replied to, and it wasn't you....

florallover wrote:

xCandyAllOverx wrote:

florallover wrote:

I'm getting tired of seeing people one by one keep saying why they dislike groups/cleeks... All of you said it yourself that this is just a game site, so why should it matter/bother anyone when others are getting into groups, that's THEIR way of fun...

It ruins the 'fun' because some of you here just too serious and can't let go... Even to the point of comparing this petty thing to real life...To really GROW UP is to complain less...

Take note that I'm not in a group/cleek myself, but it's a waste of time trying to get everyone to do the same, make peace... No don't worry, I'm not offended, just think that no one should have said what is 'right' or 'wrong' in here... We have children dying from AIDS, poverty, animal extinction, those are the things I prefer discussing about...

Just coz we dont lyk being in a group for our own reasons..doesn't mean that we are trying to change other peoples mind aswell!
I for one have never said that...The thread's topic is :  Bimbos Who Are Not In [C L E E K] or [G R O U P]!
So i wasn't saying that we were gona change any1 elses opinion aswell.

xoxo Candy

No, not we, just SOME of them here... Candy dear, I'm not refering to you... I'm sure you could see who I replied to, and it wasn't you....

Yes i did see who you were referring to
Im sorry if i did sound rude by the way!

But i guess we all have different opinions and you are entiteled to yours aswell
xoxo
Candy

Futtnetwalker wrote:

why should we come together if we are independant? i dont see the point.

I dont get it either.

MissVierto wrote:

Never liked those groups and cliques and stuff like this. Because really it divides.This is why people think the forums' are getting more boring, because it is too much divided. Just my opinion.
 


Good about not being offended... and about the other stuff you like talking about  The bad thing is that the people who CAN make the difference do newer botox for less brain damage
                             

I agree, I find the forums boring now compared to how they were a few months ago. Everyone is split into groups and doing their own thing. It used to be everyone coming into the forums as individuals and having a good gossip and a laugh about all sorts of things. I sometimes go into the forum and every topic on the page is aimed at the groups. What happened to the carefree chat we all used to enjoy